tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10759842.post4337744083589851539..comments2024-03-18T15:10:48.288-05:00Comments on Cosbys in Cahoots: mother craftheatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01216566053869767069noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10759842.post-28276303959503390142008-09-06T18:38:00.000-05:002008-09-06T18:38:00.000-05:00Heather,I don't remember ever getting up with my b...Heather,<BR/>I don't remember ever getting up with my babies during the night except the first two weeks with second. Routine is good -- the bath and cuddling, rocking, singing. With C. she always had music to go to sleep by -- Primary tapes usually with some classic intermixed (I'm particularly fond of Tchaikovsky). I always figured a loving routine promoted the security needed to sleep soundly. Of course that is said of a toddler more than an infant. When younger, she loved baby music boxes to go to sleep by. You're a good mom; your instincts are no doubt quite right on.kimlishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05021454739487431970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10759842.post-60122174321965818422008-09-04T09:10:00.000-05:002008-09-04T09:10:00.000-05:00You are doing a great job Heather. I think it is ...You are doing a great job Heather. I think it is hard not to worry about what how our kids are going to turn out. I feel the same way.<BR/><BR/>The night before last Max woke up twice in the middle of the night. I spent the whole day bugged and upset that he had forgotten how to sleep. Maybe we just need to stress a little bit less (I say this as a reminder to us both). <BR/><BR/>Due to the fact that our kids our so close in age it is easy to compare. Max and Maya sleep well at night and on occasion roll over. Anna laughs more, smiled much earlier, grabs things and can sit up with a little help. They all have different skills. Let's just make sure they hang out more often so they can teach each other and we can remind ourselves that we are really having a good time.rusted sunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13378114079276596136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10759842.post-77196435135749932892008-08-31T21:47:00.000-05:002008-08-31T21:47:00.000-05:00I am so proud!I am so proud!Rebecca Holt Stayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03409448322757943235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10759842.post-11614552825949376942008-08-29T23:08:00.000-05:002008-08-29T23:08:00.000-05:00Hey Heather,Regarding Baby Signs, check out this w...Hey Heather,<BR/><BR/>Regarding Baby Signs, check out this website <BR/><BR/>http://www.mybabycantalk.com/content/dictionary/dictionaryofsigns.aspx?letter=A<BR/><BR/>for a video dictionary of signs. I tried signs with Maya, but she only used them a short while before she just started saying the words. Some people believe the reason babies who use signs have larger vocabularies later in life is just because parents who sign to their babies talk to them, too. That is, you're saying the words while you're signing; hence, more language exposure. Interesting stuff. Oh, and I adore the rolls!!! Breastfeeding moms rule!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10759842.post-56036292734315487942008-08-28T19:32:00.000-05:002008-08-28T19:32:00.000-05:00Great crafts! Do you have a pattern for those bla...Great crafts! Do you have a pattern for those blanket stitch shoes? Could you send me a link if it's online?<BR/><BR/>I echo Steve's comment about the baby rolls--Soooo cute! I seem to remember that he had plenty himself.<BR/><BR/>Babies don't usually sign back until at least 8 months -- though you can start with basics whenever you feel like it. They suggest waiting till baby is waving bye bye and pointing at things so you don't get discouraged. I really liked reading the original Baby Signs book and was surprised to find recently that the authors had written two more -- Baby Minds and Baby Hearts -- where they summarize the scientific research about how babies think and feel. It's very readable, and feels much less anecdotal than something like Baby Wise.Karen Ahlstromhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08494601453714239376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10759842.post-23119276300901570132008-08-28T18:10:00.000-05:002008-08-28T18:10:00.000-05:00Oh so cute! Anna looks very edible!:) Your craft...Oh so cute! Anna looks very edible!:) Your crafts are amazing.JPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05538989499379478714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10759842.post-66251911807396742482008-08-28T16:15:00.000-05:002008-08-28T16:15:00.000-05:00SO MANY BABY ROLLS!SO MANY BABY ROLLS!tpmotdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16456475608512277499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10759842.post-60315812542838119792008-08-28T15:00:00.000-05:002008-08-28T15:00:00.000-05:00You are a crafting genius. Those shoes. Wow.I have...You are a crafting genius. Those shoes. Wow.<BR/><BR/>I have no advice about the sleeping thing. Simon didn't sleep through the night until he was 8 or 9 months, although towards the end he would just wake up once, at around 5:00 to eat. I was fine with it. I thought it was easier to go at his own pace than it was to try to manipulate anything. <BR/><BR/>As for the signing, I just checked out a book from the library, learned a few signs, and then signed them to him when appropriate. Diaper when I changed him, eat when I fed him, milk when I nursed him. He was really slow catching on. I started signing when he was 5 months and he didn't sign back until he was 13 months. Some people really like Signing Time DVDs (Simon won't watch one), but I kind of just picked up signs here and there and implemented them into our daily life. <BR/><BR/>I know it gets kind of rough when you have so much time on your hands and yet don't feel like you are doing much with it. At least it did for me. I think that taking care of an infant is so exhausting in every way: mentally, physically, spiritually, etc. Having a baby takes a much longer adjustment period than I expected, mostly because they change so fast and often just when you feel you are getting the hang of it, you realize they've moved on to something else. Something that helped me was realizing that just by being a mom I was being challenged in all of the areas you mentioned by having to make room for this new person. It takes a lot of faith, and even though I have felt spiritually weaker than I have before, I have also found myself praying over the littlest things. I've had to work to make sure that the baby didn't get in the way of my relationship with Micah, even though it often feels like he does get in the way. I hope that is helpful to you, even if you weren't really asking for help.lizziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13116357779982778462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10759842.post-87509644486494608242008-08-28T14:09:00.000-05:002008-08-28T14:09:00.000-05:00I have no motherly advice, but I must say that you...I have no motherly advice, but I must say that your crafts look absolutely awesome.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14023667632014864396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10759842.post-90744615608491703702008-08-28T13:46:00.000-05:002008-08-28T13:46:00.000-05:00Well, for someone who just recently found her inne...Well, for someone who just recently found her inner crafter you have completely blown me away! You have accomplished WAY more in Anna's 4 months than I have in the 4 years since I started having kids! Way to go :-)! And don't stress about her sleep. She is still little and I think a lot of baby sleep habits totally depend on their "sleep personality." It sounds like you are doing what you think is right and that's the most important thing. If you don't go get her when she wakes up after 4 hours will she fall back asleep after awhile or does she get herself all worked up until you come feed her?Marcihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04472908282219245038noreply@blogger.com